Powerful Action Verbs That Will Make Your Resume Look Like a Million Bucks

Powerful Action Verbs That Will Make Your Resume Look Like a Million BucksTry spicing up your resume or cover letter with a few failsafe action verbs, to really show your stuff. Get a little more creative and give the hiring manager something to get excited about, rather than the same old humdrum list of verbs they see on every other resume. googletag.cmd.push(function() googletag.display(div-gpt-ad-1467144145037-0) ) If you led a project, dont just say led. Try one of these insteadChaired, Controlled, Coordinated, Executed, Headed, Operated, Orchestrated, Organized, Oversaw, Planned, Produced, or ProgrammedIf you want to highlight an achievement or mention an award, here are a bunch of stellar verbs to choose fromAccelerated, Generated, Prescribed, Accomplished, Grew, Produced, Achieved, Prevailed, Arose, Improved, Raised, Attained, Increased, Realized, Awarded, Introduces, Reduced, Lessened, Revitalized, Completed, Mastered, Streamlined, Maximized, Surpassed, Circumvented, Minimiz ed, Topped, Established, Outperformed, Transformed, Exceeded, Won, Founded, or OvercameIf you brought a project to lifenot just led it, but envisioned it, from start to finish, and did something new and freshAdministered, Built, Charted, Created, Designed, Developed, Devised, Founded, Engineered, Established, Formalized, Formed, Formulated, Implemented, Incorporated, Initiated, Instituted, Introduced, Launched, Pioneered, or SpearheadedIf you came up with a solution to save your company time or money, or you helped your team operate more efficiently or cost-effectively, try these instead of the ordinary solvedConserved, Consolidated, Decreased, Deducted, Diagnosed, Lessened, Reconciled, Reduced, or YieldedIf you boosted the bottom line, in either sales or revenue, or just plain old customer satisfactionAccelerated, Achieved, Advanced, Amplified, Boosted, Capitalized, Delivered, Enhanced, Expanded, Expedited, Furthered, Gained, Generated, Improved, Lifted, Maximized, Outpaced, Stimul ated, or SustainedIf you changed or improved something dramatically for the better, try using some of these spicy verbs to describe your successCentralized, Clarified, Converted, Customized, Influenced, Integrated, Merged, Modified, Overhauled, Redesigned, Refined, Refocused, Rehabilitated, Remodeled, Reorganized, Replaced, Restructured, Revamped, Revitalized, Simplified, Standardized, Streamlined, Strengthened, Updated, Upgraded, or TransformedIf you landed a new account or a partner, or maybe a major donor or other source of funding, tryAcquired, Forged, Navigated, Negotiated, Partnered, or SecuredIf your job includes research or fact-finding and you really killed it, dont just say Researched. TryAnalyzed, Assembled, Assessed, Audited, Calculated, Discovered, Evaluated, Examined, Explored, Forecasted, Identified, Interpreted, Investigated, Mapped, Measured, Qualified, Quantified, Surveyed, Tested, TrackedAnd if you were a communications superstar, speaking, lobbying, writing, etc. to further your causeAuthored, Briefed, Campaigned, Co-authored, Composed, Conveyed, Convinced, Corresponded, Counseled, Critiqued, Defined, Documented, Edited, Illustrated, Lobbied, Persuaded, Promoted, Publicized, ReviewedIn short, dont be afraid to bring a little sexy into your document. It can really help you stand out among the other applicants in the crowd.

10 Things You Dont Learn About Marriage Until Youve Been Married At Least a Decade

10 Things You Dont Learn About Marriage Until Youve Been Married At Least a Decade More than 90 percent of the population marries by age 50, according to the American Psychological Association. But just because people get married, doesnt mean they really understand marriage.We asked women whove been married for at least a decade to share what theyve learned about marriage. According to them, you dont truly get marriage until youve been married this long. Heres what tzu sichbeie is to grasp...1. Putting yurself first is important, too.I would say that it takes more than 10 years of marriage (for me even longer) to really learn that the best thing you can do for a healthy marriage is to put yurself first sometimes, says Leslie Kasperowicz, managing editor for Marriage in the early years feels like a lot of time spent trying to make your spouse happy and often on adjusting yourself and your behavior to what you believe will make them happy. Weve been given a lot of ideas about what it m eans to make a happy marriage, but rarely do those include putting yourself first. We have images of selfless spouses sacrificing for a perfect marriage in our minds, and theyre bedrngnis realistic.For Kasperowicz, the perfect example of self time is getting enough sleep even if that means separately from her husband.I have always been a poor, very light sleeper, she says. My husband, on the other hand, sleeps deeply and sometimes snores. For most of our marriage, I held on to the belief that I should continue to sleep next to him every night because sleeping separately was a sign of a troubled marriage to me, even if it meant I was always tired in the morning. I worried that I was abandoning my husband and thus my marriage somehow by sleeping somewhere else. But when circumstances pushed us to try separate beds I realized how wrong I had been all those years. Putting my sleep (and myself) first didnt damage our marriage in fact, it made it better. We still have a lot of intimacy i n our marriage, and now I am notlage tired and short-tempered, which makes everything better for both of us. It takes many years of marriage to come to a place where you understand that the couple and the individuals both still matter and that you can take care of both yourself and your marriage at the same time.2. Being present is key.I just celebrated my 40th anniversary, says Bracha Goetz, author of 38 childrens books. After many years, I discovered the amazing effect it has on my husband when I give him my full attention and stop multi-tasking when he talks to me. He feels valued, and it feels like we are on an exciting first date now that will never end.3. You have to enjoy whatever life throws your way.No matter how life changes, our enjoyment remains constant, says Melanie Musson, who writes for we had a different kind of fun. Different, but every bit as wonderful and exciting.When Mussons daughter got sick, however, she and her husband thought theyd lose her. Though shes sti ll surviving, Musson says that her daughters struggles arent what shed imagined in her young mom dreams.But we, we continued to have a deeply fantastic life, she says. Four daughters have joined our union and our fun consists of things like laughing at ourselves for our failed attempt at teaching our two-year-old jagdbeute child to ski and roasting marshmallows on summer evenings. The bike still sits in the garage. The memories are too wonderful for us to part with it, but we have every bit as much fun now as we did then. Our life is fuller. And our love is deeper. And I could not have known that without experiencing it. I know that, as long as we have each other, we will always find the joy of life.4. You should have more intimacy.What I learned being married this long is to always have sex even when you might not feel like it, says Alina Adams, who has been married for 20 years. Its never a waste of time.5. You should never keep score.Dont keep score, says Kim Higgins, who has be en married for 30 years. Its easy to say I did this, but you didnt do this I am doing more. No good comes from keeping score. At times in your marriage, one is usually doing more than the other and then it will swing back the other way.6. Understanding each others love languages is critical.I am a romantic my husband, not so much, says Carol Gee, author of Random Notes. As a newly married woman, my idea of romance was loving gestures, chocolates, lacy underthings, holding hands and his constantly looking into my eyes with love, etc. First, my husbands idea of gifts was appliances, like a four-slide toaster gift wrapped in a lovely red bow at Christmas. His thought was that a four-slice toaster was better than the three two-slicers we received as wedding gifts. A blender two months later on my birthday followed. He also wasnt comfortable with affection and holding hands. In fact, it wasnt until years later and a two-year marital time-out at year 13 that I realized that he loved me, but was more comfortable sharing it in different ways.Instead of chocolates and hand-holding, hed put air in her tires because he wanted her to be safe. Hed have her car washed and detailed because it needed it, and he thought it would make her happy. When her kitten passed, and she says she was inconsolable, he went out of his way to buy her a new one.Forty-six years later, I now realize that love isnt only about grand gestures and things that cost time and money, she says. Real love is often about simple gesture... which is something I failed to recognize at year 13.7. You will need to make sacrifices.I am a wife and mother of more than 30 years, and I would argue that one doesnt know their strength until they have been married more than 10 years, says Lisa Swift-Young, co-founder of 4 Curls and author of Pause 2 Praise 30 Days to Happier and Healthier Relationships with your Adult Children. I married at 23 years old, and I could not have known the triumphs and trials of marriage until I stuck it out for more than 10 years. Women are multidimensional, and marriage presents opportunities to grow in ways that test your resolve and resistance. My negotiation skills have been significantly heightened because marriage offers numerous opportunities to practice. If you are fortunate enough to marry the right person, you will learn the meaning of iron sharpens iron.8. The tough times make you stronger.I feel the biggest growth in our marriage occurred after 10 years of matrimony, says Jane Wilson, who has now been married for 23 years. We went through a rocky period and, thankfully, made it out the other side. Because of our perseverance, we have a deeper connection. We learned more about forgiveness, compassion and recognizing that we make mistakes. The first 10 years was like a fairytale, but this next phase of 10 years feels deeper and stronger.9. You will argue, and thats okay, so long as you hold onto respect.My husband and I celebrated our 20th anniversary th is year, says Linda Walker, who has been with her husband for 26 years. When we were first married, he told me that there are two things that are very important to him. 1. Never leave the house in anger. 2. Never talk to each other above a conversational tone. I have been very good with the first one, but sometimes have to work on the second. We have a wonderful relationship, and I have learned so many things in our marriage that have helped create the happy home we share.Walker says she always tells her husband that she loves him (even when he frustrates her), and they always kiss each other goodbye when they leave the house.I have to remember that its not always about me and be sensitive to his wants and needs, she adds. I never ever say anything in front of other folks that would embarrass him or be disrespectful. I have learned not to dig my heels in during an argument. While I may believe that I am right, I am always willing to listen to his point of view and, oftentimes, I see that maybe I was wrong, regardless of the issue. And, the most important thing of all is to know that neither of us is perfect. We argue. We fuss. We make up. But we always have respect and love for each other.10. You can never change anyone.Ive been married for 17 years, and Id argue you have to be married a long time to realize that you cant change people, says Manda J, a family lifestyle and travel blogger. If you marry someone who is a slob, thats what they are. Or if you marry someone who isnt a morning person, thats just what they are. You will never change the person you marry. Their traits are their traits. If you dont like certain characteristics or you think something is a deal-breaker, dont think you can change it.--AnnaMarie Houlis is a feminist, a freelance journalist and an adventure aficionado with an affinity for impulsive solo travel. She spends her days writing about womens empowerment from around the world. You can follow her work on her blog, HerReport.org, and follow her journeys on Instagram her_report,Twitterherreport and Facebook.